Disclaimer: This post is not an attempt to explain myself for all my mistakes in the past, for what I did does not define me as a person, but it helps me to become a better person than I was yesterday.
Forgiving is to leave it all behind, not forget, but it means that you no longer care that it happened.
Maintain silence because “there is dignity in silence;” because it is not all the time, people are worthy of your voice. So let them say what they want and maintain your dignity.
In the children’s story “The Emperor’s New Clothes,” the characters, including the Emperor, have been fooled by their own liking when they failed to acknowledge that the Emperor is naked and not wearing his new wardrobe, which according to the tailors (who are actually thieves) can be only seen by the wise ones, and so as not to look stupid, they have been pretending that they are seeing the new clothes until one innocent child shouts that the Emperor is not wearing anything. It is only then when they realize that they have been cheated and have acted so stupid for not admitting that the Emperor is undressed.
Your d*ck does not make you a man, your behavior does.
Trust is such a strong word. It encompasses all kinds of relationships in the world for a healthy and strong relationship is built on trust.
The worst part of waiting is waiting for something that will never come. It is the same thing when one is in love with someone and waiting to be loved back, but the love remains unreciprocated despite the long wait…
Know the signs, if they aren’t right, forget him girl, he is not into you.
Love… it feels good to love and be loved in return…. It is so good to be in love… to have somebody to hold, to laugh with, to cry with… but what if a once sweet love story has turned into a bitter ending?
Sometimes, we will find ourselves in the middle of choosing between what we think is good for us versus what we think is right for us.
“A cup in hand, you know it’s worth your while,
A cup in hand, let’s sit and stay for a while,
Let minutes turn into moment,
Let’s sit, let’s talk,
One moment, one Nescafe.”
With all the heartaches and distress that I have been through, I learned to love myself more. It is the love for me that allows me to let go of those who do not value me, who do not care me.